Trust myself. Love openly and freely. Develop healthy, supportive relationships. Face and transform my fears. Communicate to seek understanding. Make my own decisions. Talk as nicely to myself as I do to my plants. Respect my vulnerabilities. Avoid all that is destructive. Balance wants and needs. Know that I am lovable. Give myself credit for my accomplishments. Make forgiveness a priority. Set limits and boundaries and stick to them. Give the benefit of the doubt. Overcome my addiction to approval. Treat myself with respect and teach others to do the same. Take risks and accept change. Be honest with myself and others. Realize I have emotional and practical rights. Treasure the moment. Celebrate the differences between men and women. Own my own excellence. Grant myself permission to play. Listen. Be cautious, yet recognize there is heroism everywhere. Embrace challenges. Grow through mistakes. Plan for the future but live in the present. Have realistic expectations. Never feign affection. Ask for help when I really need it. Nurture others because I want to, not because I have to. Choose what is right for me. Speak clearly. Keep my promises. Accept myself while continuing to learn, grow, and change. Avoid debt. Heal old and current wounds. Strive to see things from the other point of view. Lead by example. Complete unfinished business. Honor my own needs. Seek financial independence. Be generous of the heart and of the wallet. Value and respect my intuition. Say yes only when I really mean it. Stay healthy. Laugh.